S. Bear Bergman

mind

How to Make a Phone Call

If just... picking up and dialing fills you with dread, here are some ways to make it suck a little less.
S. Bear Bergman
10.15.21
LGBTQ

This Tiny LGBTQ Bookstore Is a Queer Haven in Small-Town Mississippi

At Violet Valley, “people who maybe don’t feel welcome have a place to come and do something ordinary, like pick a book.”
S. Bear Bergman
8.16.21
LGBTQ

Queer Bookstores Are Lit

Our bars may be disappearing, but LGBT2Q bookstores are having an unexpected, optimistic resurgence.
S. Bear Bergman
7.29.21
LGBTQ

13 Queer Books To Read at the Beach, Pool, or Wherever You Are This Summer

Whether you want a romance, a coming-of-age-story, or a murder mystery set at a leather contest, we've got you covered.
S. Bear Bergman
6.2.21
identity-culture

Creative Gift Ideas for This Very Strange Pandemic Holiday

Whether you want something luxurious, fun, or meaningful, here are tons of amazing gifts from women-, LGBT2Q-, and POC-owned businesses.
S. Bear Bergman
11.24.20
identity-culture

How to Make Socially Distanced Holidays Actually Feel Special

Jews have now had all of our major holidays, and have learned a lot about balancing safety and celebration during a pandemic.
S. Bear Bergman
10.20.20
mind

How to Support Someone You Care About if They're Stuck at Home With Bigots

If someone you care about has to live with ignorant relatives, offer them things to focus on besides another night of spaghetti alla MAGA.
S. Bear Bergman
10.9.20
mind

How to Make More LGBTQ Friends

If you're feeling lonely or adrift, you can create a chosen family of queers near and far—there are plenty of like-minded people out there for you.
S. Bear Bergman
6.22.20
LGBTQ

How to Celebrate Pride Quietly When You Aren't Totally Out

If you're in isolation with relatives who don't support you—or just not ready to tell each and every person in your life that you're LGBT2Q—here are some ways to honor the occasion and keep yourself safe.
S. Bear Bergman
6.9.20