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It’s time to give handjobs the respect, attention, and copious amounts of lube they deserve. Here’s how to give a handjob they’ll never forget.

Wanting sex only every once in a while isn't necessarily a roadblock—just something to account for as you go.

Having huge jugs doesn't matter as long as you and your partner are enthusiastic (and have plenty of lube handy).

You can add plenty of novelty to what you know and love without going full kink.

If you're polyamorous, social distancing probably means fewer in-person hookups—but, as with anything else in an open relationship, communication will keep things sexy.

Ask a lot of questions. Remember that confidence inspires confidence. Use porn GIFs to get the conversation started.

Some therapists advertising kink- and polyamory-friendly treatment might not be all they seem. Here's what to look for if you're seeking mental healthcare that doesn't see "sexual deviance" as deviance.

A touchless stimulator, a stroker designed for trans men, and vibrators of all shapes and sizes.

What one partner assumes the other is feeling or thinking isn’t always accurate.

Kink was integral to developing my sexual identity free of the stereotyping of Black women I experienced.

Kinky sex is the gift that keeps on giving.