Mark Hay

I have hyperhidrosis, and it makes me sweat (way) more than average. Here’s how I deal.

I rarely feel sexual attraction or desire, so I can’t lean on sex to express my feelings. Here’s how we make it work.

Myths about massive differences in penis size have fueled anxiety and racism for centuries. What does actual modern research say?

"I have a housemate, so I can’t do everything I’d like to, such as buying sex toys or converting my shed into a goon cave."

“I got her out of the box, cleaned her up, used her for her intended purpose once, and then… I just hung out with her.”

“He was the first person who was enthusiastic about my job in a non-fetishistic way.”

The far right seized upon a study that said administering T could cause a “red shift” in Democrats. Reality isn't so simple.

“I put on the fursuit and suddenly I’m ten times more comfortable with the way I look. Honestly, that’s magical.”

“I’ve never understood the idea in society that people should be ashamed of differences like this.”

“The best way I can say it is: It’s having sex in black-and-white.”

How people can manage sex alongside a semen allergy.

“I had this inner dialogue about all the ways in which my body betrays me.”